Battle of the Sexes – In Cookbooks

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Men are better – on the job, in the bedroom, and in the kitchen. All males are endowed with an innate culinary potential. Unfortunately, they have not always had the chance to exercise it. You see, when Eve served up that first rotten apple a terrible precedent was set – men were locked out of the kitchen

These are some of the words on the dust jacket of Cory Kilvert’s “The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook”, published in 1974. Whether Kilvert writes “tongue in cheek” is debatable, but he clearly denotes all women as “cooks” and men as “chefs” and as he points out, “And with good reason. Man is the superior being”. Whoa! What century are we in here?

"Women chefs?  Are you nuts?  Sacre bleu!" (Photo Credit:  en.wikipedia.org)

“Women chefs? Are you nuts? Sacre bleu!” (Photo Credit: en.wikipedia.org)

 

"The Male Chauvinist's Cookbook", published in 1974, authored by Cory Kilvert

“The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook”, published in 1974, authored by Cory Kilvert

Kilvert directly addresses those women, famous for their activities in the early 1970’s in the world of sports, feminism, etc. “So move aside, Betty and Gloria, Germaine and Billie Jean and Kate, and take your rhetoric with you”. Dale Carnegie, in 1936, published “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. Apparently, Mr. Kilvert never read it.

Even the chapter headings give one an idea of where the book is headed: “Success Depends on What you Have and How Well you Use it”; “A Loaf of Bread, a Jug of Wine, and Pow!”; “The Morning After”, “Light Suppers for Those Heavy Dates”. The last few blank pages are titled “Scorecard”, with three columns: Menu, Guest, Comments. I suspect the “comments” column has no relationship to the “menu” column, or what was served. I had to admit that there is no ambiguity in the contents of the book, based on it’s title. It most definitely is “The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook”!

"Scorecard" pages at the back of "The Male Chauvinist's Cookbook" by Cory Kilvert

“Scorecard” pages at the back of “The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook” by Cory Kilvert

Welcome to 2002 and “The Ex-Boyfriend Cook Book” by Erin Ergenbright and Thisbe Nissen, subtitled, “They Came, They Cooked, They Left…”. In the introduction, a friend of the authors, when she heard about the plan for the book, remarked, ‘What”….like how to fricassee the ones who really pissed you off?” No such thing. Apparently, they had no axes to grind with their temporary male cooks, as Kilvert does about women in the kitchen. The authors point out that “All names have been changed to protect the guilty, the innocent, the ones we’re not yet over, and ones who haven’t gotten over us and the ones who don’t yet know they’re exes

"The Ex-Boyfriend Cookbook" by Erine Ergenbright and Thisbe Nissen, 2002

“The Ex-Boyfriend Cookbook” by Erine Ergenbright and Thisbe Nissen, 2002

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mattel’s “Barbie” and “Ken“, in the late 1950’s and 1960’s appeared to be somewhat equals in the grand scheme of gender discrimination.: Barbie has her cute skirt for outdoor barbecues, and Ken also is “The Cheerful Chef“, although it is clear from his outfit, he’s just a grilling kind of guy. In all fairness, though, I should point out that in his varied career, Ken did make it to “Fountain Boy” (very impressive)

"Barbie's" backyard barbecue outfit (1959- 1962)

“Barbie’s” backyard barbecue outfit (1959- 1962)

"Ken" as "The Cheerful Chef" (Photo Credit:  blog-fashion-doll-guide.com)

“Ken” as “The Cheerful Chef” (Photo Credit: blog-fashion-doll-guide.com)

If Ken ever graduated to an Executive Chef position, I could find no mention of it. In more recent years, however, Barbie did seem to make it to the ranks of a Pastry Chef.  Put that in your pipe and smoke it, Mr. Kilvert!

In more recent years, unlike "Ken", "Barbie" made it to the rank of Pastry Chef (Photo Credit:  alwaysadoll.wordpress.com)

In more recent years, unlike “Ken”, “Barbie” made it to the rank of Pastry Chef (Photo Credit: alwaysadoll.wordpress.com)

Today, fortunately, the eternal “battle of the sexes” has been moderated to a degree by changes in attitudes in both men and women (well, at least in some men and women!). In North America this has become the most obvious, although sexist/chauvinist attitudes are still major issues for women in many other countries. When I was working in Bosnia for several months after the Dayton Peace Accord of 1995, in addition to my duties as a Forensic Anthropologist, I was also asked to take a driving test to help in transporting our crews back and forth. Over the months I was there and driving our van, I was continually scrutinized, sometimes in amazement (by women on the streets), and on occasion, with indignation (by men on the streets), that a female should be permitted to drive a vehicle!

"Men, if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen!"  (Photo Credit:  dinnerisserved1972.com)

“Men, if you can’t stand the heat, get out of the kitchen!” (Photo Credit: dinnerisserved1972.com)

The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook” by Kilvert is a “throwback” to an era, where women were still considered property or chattels, could never hope to attain similar salaries for doing a man’s job, could rarely hold executive positions, and in many states, could not even own property, not to mention a host of other indignities they were subjected to (“barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen”). Speaking of possessions, flashback again to Bosnia, 1996: one evening, with some of my colleagues, we traipsed down the hill from our accommodations to a small café in town, occupied solely by men, with the except of myself and a female autopsy aid from Scotland. Upon our arrival, we noticed a sudden change in the atmosphere and all attention (read “ogling”) was directed to our table. After overhearing some serious muttering, one of our colleagues from Turkey managed to speak to the gentlemen, as things appeared to be escalating. When he returned to our table he advised us to pay for our beers and make a quiet departure. On the way “home”, he advised us that there had been some serious bartering for my female colleague and me: negotiations for me were only for two beers and a goat. My colleague, a gorgeous blonde (and younger) was undoubtedly worth several cases of beer and perhaps a flock of sheep. We’ll never know. That was 1996! Even my Mother’s experience in the early 1930’s reflects those attitudes at an even earlier time. She was hired to work as a Secretary at Zenith Corporation in Chicago, and when she and my Father married, they kept it “mum”. Women in the office were not permitted to be married, for whatever twisted reasoning, and if she had acknowledged it, she would have been dismissed. At the same time, however, women were somehow “equal” to men, when it came to making major contributions to the war efforts (remember Rosie, the Riveter?, the WACS (Women’s Army Auxiliary Corps) and the WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service?).

Perhaps Mr. Kilvert, author or “The Male Chauvinist’s Cookbook” might have a look around him in this slightly more enlightened world of 2014, 40 years since he wrote his book promoting men in the kitchen as “…the only room in the house where men don’t already reign supreme”. We can only hope he will be enlightened.

"Son, perhaps one day you'll be good enough to work for a female Executive Chef as a line cook" (Photo Credit:  mayasmart.com)

“Son, perhaps one day you’ll be good enough to work for a female Executive Chef as a line cook” (Photo Credit: mayasmart.com)


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About vintagecookbookery

Cookbook lover and collector with a burgeoning collection of cookbooks. Reading and researching food trends, history of cooking techniques and technological advances in cooking, what we eat and why and cookbooks as reflectors of cultures is a fascination for me. As of November 7th, 2013, I hold the current Guinness World Record title for the largest collection of cookbooks: 2,970 at the official count on July 14th, 2013 (applaud now, thank you very much!) The current (unofficial) number is now 5,851. What next? More cookbooks, naturally (small ones !)
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